Sometimes I get my ideas for a post by using the search engine terms. One of my friends pointed this part of the dashboard out to me when I first started blogging. She said, “Look to see the search engine phrases people use to find your blog…” I call these my FAQ’s – Frequently Asked Questions.
“What does it mean if the Narcissist contacts me every few days?”
It means that you are answering his calls, email, or texts – STOP IT!
If you ever want to get rid the narcissist – you have to stop all communication with him or her.
It also means that the N is “Hoovering” – he’s trying to suck you back in, yet again.
So, I guess the question is: Are you going to fall for it again? Don’t!
I know, he’s acting all nicey nice, all attentive – but just watch – the D & D is going to happen again. It was my experience that the Devalue and Discard got worse each time.
Do you want to go through that again? You thought that time was going to be different – but just like that little white mouse in the maze that gets a shock or some other sort of painful stimulus – you finally learn as the little mouse does – to go the other way.