Sometimes I get my ideas for a post by using the search engine terms. One of my friends pointed this part of the dashboard out to me when I first started blogging. She said, “Look to see the search engine phrases people use to find your blog…” I call these my FAQ’s: or Frequently Asked Questions.
This afternoon in between errands, laundry, dishes, cats, taxi service, orthodontist & cats……I saw this search engine term on my blog’s dashboard:
“We agreed to No Contact. Should I call him?”
Ahh hmm. Is someone playing a game with me here? Must be.
In case you have been living in a cave, somewhere in the desert in…pick the country of your choice….then you have missed the first obvious rule of No Contact.
If it helps, pretend you are playing a game of hide N’ seek with the N.
The object of the childhood game is to be found last – or for our rules, not to be found AT ALL!
There’s no “Ollie Ollie Auction Free” in this game.
Come on – you don’t want the N to win the game do you? Because if you make contact you have lost.
Don’t make Contact with him (or her) and you will be the winner! Hooray.
Next, work on the technique of when you do see him out in public – act like he is a total stranger.